Alright, I'm going to respond to some of this here and hope you check to see this. I am sorry that I failed to properly check my frustration and anger. My civil letter was an attempt to do just that. I failed, my frustration got out and I am sorry that it came out the way it did.
When I said that you don't use rules out of the book, it was a comment that was far too specifically meaningful in my head and totally lost that meaning in the writing of it. There was a moment when we(those in the battle with Rain) were told that we had no justification in recognizing the power and were metagaming if we did. Things not from the "Laws of the Wild" book are not things that the PCs can respond to, (because we have no justification in knowing about them) thus we are unable to succeed against them. I did not mean to insult your integrity, and I am sorry that it came across like that.
And also, if people were only "tolerating" my game, I would have liked to hear it. Which I think a public discourse on the subject might have brought out. I wish I had known how you felt about my game, I am sorry that you did not enjoy it.
Fundamentally, I suppose I am sorry for how all of this has happened, I suppose I let my frustrations build for too long and when they got out, I could not hold them back.